Look at the range—from indifference to mastery—and see where you or your children (or students) fall along the continuum. Also consider where you fall for certain tasks.
Competent. Likely to be striving for continual growth in that area or related areas, OR ready to move on to the next challenge
Sticking with it
Efforts to complete task even with mistakes or rough-draft outcomes with a commitment to keep at it, gain skill, achieve mastery
Willing to try
Efforts to complete task, satisfied with adequate achievement for short-term outcome (grade, token, privilege)
Tries but gives up at first setback, often before having had a chance to experience success or progress
Willing to make an effort but only with a great deal of support and attention; sense of being incapable (real or imagined)
Too afraid to try
Afraid of making a mistake, looking foolish, being embarrassed. (May be related to sensory issues: touch, noise, etc.)
Can reflect lack of interest or awareness. May also reflect sense of entitlement or power struggle (need to win, indifference to negative outcomes of refusal to participate or do the work). OR may be related to fear: Better to look bad than dumb.
Note: Perfectionism may be an issue in several of these categories. I’m also thinking of instances of recklessness, over-confidence, or even a sense of delusion; refusing to accept honest, helpful feedback. I also believe that we all have experiences along the entire continuum. Ideas welcome.
For those of us who live or work with children, how do we help them move toward mastery?
What do we need to have in place (resources, climate, relationships, instruction, sensory accommodations, environment, etc.) to create a passion for learning and growth, or at least to overcome indifference, fear, and discouragement?